The Tao of Teal
Anyone who travels the highway 194 corridor between Boone
and West Jefferson, NC has or will experience what I’m about to describe. For me, I was always running just a few minutes
late to something which seemed critically important, when I would find myself stuck
behind my neighbor driving his 1994 Teal Ford Festiva. This car was legendary up in our holler, and
though I never met its steadfast operator, I will always be grateful for the extra
moments I found in his tail lights.
The Teal Festiva is famous for one thing; its unwaivering commitment to a maximum speed of 45 miles per hour, downhill. Tailgating, honking, and other harassment will
avail you nothing. You are simply locked
in time and space behind this tiny two-door.
You see, this highway winds and twists its way through the serpentine
hillsides and valleys of the Blue Ridge Mountains, and there are only 2 passing
zones, two small bands of straight away in the 10.2 miles between our former
house and town. These brief moments of
opportunity are the only times where a driver can exercise any free will and
maintain any hope of his intended itinerary.
The number of cars between you and the aforementioned vehicle, the
unpredictable specter of on-coming traffic, and the timidity of those ahead in
your lane can leave even these fleeting moments of hope dashed upon the
unyielding chrome bumper of an incredibly fuel-efficient force.
Why is it that when I was most in a rush, least prepared, and
most stressed about my incredibly important day, that I found myself in this
place behind the most inconsiderate and immovable of drivers? Obviously, the universe was conspiring against
me. Why was he just plodding along to
Mountain City on a mission to pick up his girlfriend, when I was in a desperate
rush to be somewhere important? How
could I become so frustrated by tailgaters, but he remain so obtuse to the
schedules of others?
The teal car driver, a regular Zen Master, became my unwilling
teacher, and I, his unknown student. Each
time I’d find myself behind his car, my reaction rising like bile in my throat,
I began to slowly choose another way.
“Feel the Teal, baby, Feel the Teal” I’d repeat until I’d start laughing
at the absurdity of my self-importance.
In these moments when forced to slow down and give the lead car a
respectable following distance, I found relaxation, acceptance, and let go of
all the things that I could not control.
I may not be able to urge the Teal car faster, neither could I safely
pass, but I could make a decision of how to react to the situation. These
moments were a gift to me, if I chose to see them that way; precious
opportunities to forget all the things left undone and return to this one to be
here, now. I would often arrive in a
better state of mind to meet the day despite being a few minutes late. What can you do, when you find yourself stuck
behind the Teal?
These days, as we drive
the backroads and two-lanes of our country whilst towing our home, our 1957
Sportcraft camper trailer, we are often the cause of similar delays and
reactions. While we more often than not get
friendly honks and thumbs up from passerbys, we can also tell when someone is
desperate to get around us -- riding 10 feet from our bumper, continuously swerving to the right in a futile attempt to catch a glimpse of the road ahead. Despite
going the legal speed-limit or the suggested safely engineered mph for a given corner,
or even doing as Mr. Peters, my driver’s ed. teacher, suggested “drive to the
conditions,” we seem to get in the way of life.
People insist on passing us, often in no passing zones, blind corners
and hills or other less than safe areas, in their rush to get us in their rear-view. Are the people they carry or those that care
about them worth the risks they take for a few moments of time? Ironically, we’ll often catch up to these
same vehicles at the next light or next slow truck.
We wonder if folks understand the necessary stopping
distance of larger vehicles or those with another vehicle-in-tow, at least on
some long-forgotten driver’s test level; but, thinking like that everyday doesn’t
get folks to their job on time. They
certainly aren’t thinking about what’s safe as they pull out in front of our
rig, every single time. I harbor intricate fantasies of stopping and
shaming these drivers into tearful admissions of their reckless decisions. Here he comes, the teal-caped crusader
swooping in to deliver the moral drive-safe message just in time to save the
neighbor’s dog. As much as I fantasize about giving someone a
good piece of my mind, a really good talking to, I never do. What good would it do? What good does the after-school- special
message do but allow the sponsors to pat themselves on the back for giving back
to the community?
We’ve come to expect the way others drive, and plan
accordingly. No one wants to be behind
the canned-ham trailer with the old farts in it, no matter how much younger we
may be. We drive defensively and I like
to think that Mr. Peters would be proud.
But we paid a price for this perspective, not only in the moments stuck
behind an extremely unflattering domestic experiment in fuel-economy but in a
very close call along the Trans-Canadian Highway which took out our truck but
could have taken away so much more. The driver who struck us was just impatient,
trying to get back to his place of work, trying to end his day, and we and
about 3 other cars were just in the way.
Of course I wasn’t thinking about things like that when I
was late and needed to be wherever I needed to be; I could be just as self-absorbed. When I continued in the habit of looking at
my phone, messing with the radio, taking corners while steering with my knee, or
reaching for something in the back seat while driving, my wife told me
something I’ll never forget; “Babe, I know you and if you hurt or kill someone
in an accident because you were distracted, you’re never going to forgive
yourself, you’ll always live with that guilt, forever. And, if it’s me you kill, watch out, heaven
help you with my mother.”

I wish I could say that I have the same Zen state of mind as
my Teal teacher. I wish I could remain
unmoored by the cars which haunt my draft zone, urging me to “pick it up a
little will ya, buddy?” I pull over to
let them pass whenever I can and wish them well on their way to wherever, other
times I just try to stay calm and feel the teal. Did I
mention that he also drove a white Festiva...but only on special occasions.
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